Saturday, November 29, 2014

How Much Alpha is Too Much Alpha?




Like so many romance readers, the occasional alpha male makes me smile. A strong man who knows what he wants and how to get it is definitely one of my favorite things about the genre. Of course, there are some characters that pass from the realm of the alpha, into the realm of the jerk. Never a good thing.

 

This happened a lot in romance novels in the 1980's and 90's. (Okay, yes, I am definitely dating myself here.) One of my favorite romance novels when I was younger was WHITNEY, MY LOVE by Judith McNaught. While a lovely story in many ways, filled with fabulous, sexy situations and compelling characters, it had an alpha who crossed the line more than once. The duke who was our hero lied to the heroine for months about who he was, only to rape her when she pissed him off. How, I ask you, does a woman come back from that? Somehow, the leading lady took him back and made it all ok for the both of them, after a bit of groveling on his part, but honestly there is not enough groveling in the world to make up for that kind of heinous behavior.

 But enough about my personal dislikes. The real question is, how much alpha is too much alpha?

 I explored this tightrope walk myself in my novel HOW TO TAME A WILLFUL WIFE. Any man who sets out to "tame" a woman as if she is a wild dancing bear already has problems. But can those problems be overcome? The answer for me is yes, though some of my readers love to hate Anthony for his high handed ways.

 The way I solved the problem for myself and for the majority of my readers was to make my heroine as strong, or stronger, than Anthony. Caroline gave as good as she got, and she never backed down. She and her willful husband had to learn to live together in peace, and they had to do it as partners, as equals, or the whole thing would have gone down.



 So this leads back to my question: On a scale of 1 to 5, five being Love That Alpha and one being Hate The Alpha, where on the scale of Alpha Male Hero do you fall? Leave your answer in the comments section below for a chance to win a signed copy of HOW TO TAME A WILLFUL WIFE.

These shenanigans come from the mind of Christy English.
Ever since Christy picked up a fake sword in stage combat class at the age of fourteen, she has lived vicariously through the sword-wielding women of her imagination. Sometimes an actor, always a storyteller, Christy works happily with Sourcebooks Casablanca to bring the knife-throwing women of her novels to life. A banker by day and a writer by night, she loves to eat chocolate, drink too many soft drinks, and walk the mountain trails of her home in North Carolina.
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Friday, November 28, 2014

It's DONE!!! by Jade Lee

It's DONE!!! 

By Jade Lee

Guess what???

A. Martians have landed in my back yard and they're pooping gold!
B. My 3 year old niece has just created the formula for the cure for cancer in crayon! Or was that cancer in crayons? Not nearly as exciting.
C. Her dog Molly insists on putting her nose in my suitcase and slobbering on my clothes.
D. I turned in the manuscript for my Nov 2015 book on time!  Er...assuming you add 2 months to my deadline.

Answer D!  And honestly a month ago the Martians were more likely. As for C, I managed to close the suitcase so poor doggie is foiled!


So after this miracle created thru hard work and coffee was emailed to my editor, I celebrated by...

A. Dusting my house from top to bottom.
B. I took a shower. Believe me, I needed it.
C. I went grocery shopping for something other than chips and chocolate.
D. I watched a marathon of a new TV show called Get off your Couch, you fat slob.

Answer: B. Yes, needed to bathe desperately. As for dusting? Hahahahahahaha. Grocery shopping? What do you mean? There's nothing I ever eat except chips, chocolate, and coffee. And I get the coffee from the corner cafe. As for TV...I would definitely watch that show if someone created it.


What do I think of my new masterpiece?
A. What masterpiece? Where? Oh that thing I just turned in? Is it even coherent?
B. It's brilliant. Funny, sexy, with some adventure and lots of heat!
C. I'll wait to decide after the movie comes out.
D. I'm sorry. I'm in a Cheetos-induced coma. I have no idea what we're talking about.

Answer: all of the above! Except D. I'm not a fan of Cheetos. I've been binging on left over Halloween chocolate. And there's not really a movie scheduled, though a girl can dream, right?


And finally, you get to guess what my working title for this book is.

A. The Pig Book.
B. The {}*<€|€~><!| book.
C. The hot guy who loves me!
D. Title? Was I supposed to title it? Oh crap...

Answer: all of the above, at one time or another. But in honor of the pig who pees on the hero--forcing a lovely naked in the stream scene--I have indeed dubbed it The Pig Book. (And it's set during summer, so no shrinkage!)


So there you go. Now you see how empty my brain is after I emerge from my writing cave. 

Tell me your favorite book title and one lucky commenter will win a free Jade Lee eBook of their choice!

Thursday, November 27, 2014

The Best and the Worst of Thanksgiving with the Casablanca Authors

Happy Thanksgiving, Readers! 


While you wait for your pies to cook and the house is filled with delicious smells of cinnamon and pumpkin, sit back and enjoy tales of our best or worst Thanksgivings. Share your own memories in the comments section.



 As always, readers, we are thankful for you!

My favorite Thanksgiving story is when my son went back home to have Thanksgiving with his friends, but my mom, daughter and I had the most fun. We had the traditional lovely turkey dinner and it went downhill after that, although in a totally funny, wild, crazy, and memorable way. Kind of like the way I write. Anyway, I’d had roof damage in storms a couple of weeks earlier, and I didn’t realize it, but the roofers had covered the chimney with roofing paper because I’d lost my chimney cap. So here I’m trying to start a fire in the fireplace with one of those 6? hour burning logs and lo and behold, the smoke begins pouring into the living room. At the same time, my daughter had started the comedy Jackie Chan movie and it was playing in the background in Chinese, AND we had an ice and snowstorm going on, yes, at Thanksgiving in Central Texas, which is really unusual.



But that’s not all. :) Next, we had a swarm of yellow jackets flying out of the fireplace, and if you know anything about them, they’re aggressive and sting. But they were also groggy from the smoke and cold. My daughter, she was about 15, wanted to spray them with hornet spray, but I didn’t want her to do it because I was afraid there would be a chemical reaction with the fire. I was vacuuming them up in mid-air, while my mom was swatting them with a flyswatter. LOL

The house was filled with smoke and I had to get the burning log out of the fireplace without dropping it on the rug and starting a fire. I finally managed to get it out in a bucket and poured water on it outside. Then we had to deal with the thick smoke. So we had to open the front and back door, where we’re having this terrific ice and snowstorm, wind blowing hard, and had all the ceiling fans going, which meant we were freezing.

So after we opened all the windows and doors and had a floor fan and ceiling fans going so we could breathe, the heat from the flames finally having seared through the tar paper on the chimney and so some of the smoke began to escape that way, we sat down to watch the movie…in subtitles. I asked my daughter if it wasn’t in English. Nope.

At the end, we watched the funny outtakes…in English. LOL
That has been our most memorable Thanksgiving ever! LOL

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One of the best Thanksgivings I ever had was the last one with my grandmother. I was five and she flew from Memphis to our then home in Wilmington, Delaware. I was fighting my way through the boredom of the long No Kid's Land between the Parade and Dinner when she took me for a walk. It was truly freezing outside, but I loved walking with her. The sun was shining, and the crisp air was such a change from the overheated air of the house. We talked about a lot of nothing, like we always did. She always listened to me, and talked back to me like I was grown. I did not know it at the time, but she was dying of cancer. We lost her the next spring, the first loss of my young life. But like all true loves, she lives on with me even now, and in the little stuffed duck she gave me that trip. So one of the many things I am grateful for this holiday season is for my family, and for the fact that I still carry my grandmother in my heart.

Christy English, author of MUCH ADO ABOUT JACK



Every Thanksgiving is a great holiday for my family, as it falls right around my parents' anniversary and my sister's birthday, and it's right at that window between fall and winter where everyone's ready to cozy up inside but isn't yet sick of it. If I had to pick a favorite Thanksgiving, though, it would be the first year with my daughter. She was too little to eat the turkey, but she had a special Thanksgiving outfit--you can kind of see it in this picture. She sat in her high chair at the table with everyone else, smiling and gurgling (and occasionally shrieking and crying for no reason--babies keep holidays interesting).

Now she is a "big girl"--her words--of six years old. She helps make the Thanksgiving pies and breads, and she snitches the roasted vegetables when she thinks no one is watching. Every year with her brings its own different dramas and joys, and I've been deeply thankful for each one.

--Theresa Romain, author of SECRETS OF A SCANDALOUS HEIRESS


How cute, Theresa! My babies are big...one is shaving and driving (ha! not at the same time). :-D



I love Thanksgiving. Cooking the whole schmeer from turkey to side dishes and pies is genuinely fun. I love to be part of people gathering together and sharing.


Last year I spent the Wednesday before Thanksgiving with 400 homeless people in San Diego. My family used to lead a homeless outreach, and it was a joy to feed and talk to people. One lady cried because she got to eat real mashed potatoes. That gives you perspective.


And yes, the whole family was in on it. Here's a picture of my sons preparing food for another outreach.


Can you see their joy from having to stop while mom snapped photos?


The other reason Thanksgiving is so dear to me: my husband, Brian. I call him my quiet alpha male. His birthday is November 26, which falls on Thanksgiving every so often.


Life really began for me when I married him. That's not very independent-sounding, but it's true.


Below is a picture of him goofing around in the kitchen preparing for the outreach.


And the last BIG part of Thanksgiving is making sure I have plenty of pecan pies around for Brian to eat. Those are his favorites.  What's yours?




Happy Thanksgiving to you~ Gina Conkle http://ginaconkle.com/ 
















Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Pop Quiz from Editor Deb Werksman

POP QUIZ (Please check all that apply, and please share your thoughts/questions/comments)—I want to hear from you, I want to hear what your readers are telling you, and I want us to shape the future together.



1) What do readers want next in paranormal romance?
a. More vampires
b. More shapeshifters (including mythical creatures like dragons)
c. Reincarnation
d. Ghosts
e. Psychics/Telekinesis, etc.
f. Fantasy/Futuristic/Sci-Fi
g. Magical Realism
h. Other, please specify:_________________
Comments about what you’re reading or writing in paranormal romance, what you wish there was to read, what your readers are asking for, and/or pitches for books you’d like to write/publish:_________________

2) In romantic suspense, besides military and law enforcement, what do you buy, what do your readers ask for or talk about, what do you see working in the marketplace?
a. Ordinary people caught in circumstances beyond their control, gritty, dark, edgy stories
b. Journalists, politicians, and other professions tangentially related to military and law enforcement
c. I have no idea
d. Ordinary people in warm, fuzzy situations, where there happens to be a crime or mystery—the romance equivalent of cozy mystery
Comments about what you’re reading or writing in paranormal romance, what you wish there was to read, what your readers are asking for, and/or pitches for books you’d like to write/publish:_________________

3) In historical romance, what do you buy, what do your readers ask for or talk about, what do you see working in the marketplace?
a. Georgian/Regency/Victorian England
b. Medieval
c. Scottish Highland
d. Western Historical
e. French Revolution
f. American Revolution
g. Russian Revolution
h. Edwardian
i. WWI/WWII/between the WWs
j.  Civil War
k.  Pirates
l. Ancient Rome
m. Ancient Egypt
n. Other, please specify:_________________________
Comments about what you’re reading or writing in historical romance, what you wish there was to read, what your readers are asking for, and/or pitches for books you’d like to write/publish:_________________


4) In Erotic Romance, now that 50 Shades is behind us, what’s moving readers the most?
a. Specific erotic themes (BDSM, menage, MM, etc)
b. Short stories and novellas, doesn’t matter what the theme is
c. Full length novels, but the writing and/or characters have to be REALLY good
d. Other, please specify: _______________________________
Comments about what you’re reading or writing in erotic romance, what you wish there was to read, what your readers are asking for, and/or pitches for books you’d like to write/publish:_________________

5) In Contemporary romance, which of these would you like to read:
a. The personal side of military life
b. The personal side of being a first responder, police officer, or other profession that’s intense and life-saving
c. Small town stories
d. Stories that include deep issues that people today are dealing with in current events
e. Wealthy lifestyles
f. Ordinary people
Comments about what you’re reading or writing in contemporary romance, what you wish there was to read, what your readers are asking for, and/or pitches for books you’d like to write/publish:_________________

6) Which of these do you consider to be exotic locations?
a. The Pacific Northwest (US)
b. Alaska
c. Europe
d. Russia
e. New York City
f. Las Vegas
g. Other, please specify: __________________________________________________

HAPPY THANKSGIVING! Eat well, hug your loved ones, and may your dreams be filled with the plots, characters and internal/external conflicts that will make your next book a mega-bestseller. I am grateful every day for the privilege of working with authors—I’m living the dream. Love to you all.


Tuesday, November 25, 2014

I Say It's Her Birthday

Today is my sister's birthday. Happy birthday, Sister R!

As you can see, she has always been fond of me. Weren't we a snuggly pair? She's the curly-top. I'm the immense pouty-faced baby.

When we were kids, there was no one I admired more than my sister. There was also no one I fought with more. When we got older, my admiration stuck around, though fortunately our foot fights came to an end. (She ALWAYS won. Grr. No, I'm over it.)

When each of us got married, there was no question who would be the maid/matron of honor. We're godmothers to each other's kids. We live far apart, so we send each other books all the time. And when we do meet up, we enjoy a serious get-together where we act serious and do serious things.


I just turned in a book in which sibling relationships are important for both hero and heroine. Some are close; some are distant; some are tense and some are relaxed. People don't get to pick their families.

Still, I'd have happily picked mine. I'm sandwiched between an older sister and a younger brother who have both built wonderful families and careers. Nobody's perfect*, but we're all pretty perfect for each other.

Readers, who's the sibling of your heart--either by birth or by choice? Give them a shout-out here! And tell Sister R happy birthday too, if you like. She enjoys a good celebration, so I'm wishing her a coconut cake. And I wish I were there to share it with her.


*Though Little Miss R would like to nominate herself for your consideration.

Monday, November 24, 2014

A little slice of Australia...

I've always been fascinated with history, and last weekend my boyfriend and I had a chance to explore a little piece of local history. 

I live in a small town in country Victoria, Australia. The discovery of gold in the area in 1857 set off a bit of a boom, though most of the area is known for farming, and there are some beautiful old homesteads in the area from that era that remind me a little of the one from The Man From Snowy River, which is one of my favourite movies (I'm not sure if this is a movie Americans might have seen, but its definitely a fun one!). 

So when one of the local homesteads, 'Lexington' was opened for the day for an Open Garden, I was keen to explore. Market stalls, a band, gorgeous gardens, and delicious food. Count me in. 

Here are a few of the photos, to show a little bit of a different Australia to the one usually seen in tourism photos. 

The style of the house is set facing the South, which is Georgian apparently. 




The local Grampians mountain range.


I adore rose gardens, and this one was beautiful. 



The best part of the day, however, was the home-made ice cream one of the stalls was selling. Salted caramel ice cream in a waffle cone. Unfortunately I don't have a picture of that one: it didn't last long enough. 

Question: Out of curiosity, has anyone seen any Australian films? I'm actually not certain if they distribute worldwide. 

Friday, November 21, 2014

MOCKINGJAY!!!


Today is the day thousands of Hunger Games fans have been waiting for. Mockingjay (Part 1) has arrived in theaters! W0000T!

So far I've been very impressed with how the films are staying true to the books. I had been especially leery of CATCHING FIRE and was relieved that it did not disappoint.

I admit to being disappointed about the movie being split into 2 parts, mostly because it'll be torture waiting yet ANOTHER year to see the next installment, but also because I worry that there is not enough material to merit 2 movies. They'll have to put stuff in, or extend battle scenes, or something. Let's hope they don't put in anything ridiculous or out of character, or turn the movie into an overdose of gratuitous CGI explosions.
I also admit that I won't be joining the masses on opening day. I have major issues with crowds so my son and I are going on Monday.
Who else is looking forward to Mockingjay? Do you think it will live up to the book?

Thursday, November 20, 2014

AUTUMN COMFORTS: Scalloped Potatoes (A Recipe Post)

November may not be the shortest month of the year, but it always seems to fly past--possibly because it’s one of the busiest. Holidays, elections, shopping at its most insane (Black Friday, anyone?), personal challenges like the Great American Smoke-Out and National Novel Writing Month . . . finding the time to relax, reflect, and simply be in November is an ongoing challenge, even with that extra hour we regain when Standard Time resumes.

This year, after a challenging summer, I’m trying to take autumn slow and easy. That doesn’t mean being less productive--while I’m not participating in NaNoWriMo, I am on course to finish my WiP this month--but rather to enjoy the journey and not stress out so much about the destination or how fast I get there. And to savor whatever comforts the season has to offer.

I count cooking among those comforts. As the weather cools and the days grow shorter and darker, I find the kitchen one of the pleasantest places to be. Especially when something that smells wonderful and tastes even better is bubbling away on the stovetop or in the oven.

This recipe for scalloped potatoes is a family favorite, freely adapted from several recipes in our collection of ancient cookbooks. The proportions can be adjusted easily to feed a larger crowd (as written, this serves about 3 or 4 people), and it makes a delicious accompaniment to anything from Thanksgiving turkey or ham to humbler meatloaf or chops. And yes, it makes the house smell heavenly!


SCALLOPED POTATOES WITH CHEESE

3-4 medium to large baking potatoes (Russet or Yukon Gold)
1/3 c. flour
3 Tbsp. butter or margarine, cut into small pieces
1 c. grated cheese (I used sharp cheddar, but if you prefer milder cheeses, Gruyere is an excellent alternative)
Salt
Pepper
1 1/2-2 c. milk

Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Butter and flour a 1 qt. casserole dish.

Peel potatoes and slice into rounds no thicker than ¼ ".  Place a layer of slices on the bottom of the casserole dish. Season with salt and pepper, then sprinkle about a Tbsp. of flour over the potato slices. Dot with butter and add a layer of cheese. Repeat until potato slices are used up (you’ll probably end up with about three layers). Sprinkle the top with any remaining cheese.


 Heat milk in saucepan until scalding. Pour over stacked potatoes. The top layer should still be visible through the liquid. (If you have more milk than you need, set it aside. You can always add it later in the cooking process, if the potatoes absorb what’s already there.)

Cover casserole with foil and bake for 40 minutes. Remove foil and bake for 20 more minutes until potatoes are fork-tender and golden-brown on top.


Serve hot, as a side dish to just about anything!


Pamela Sherwood

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

A Time for Thanks by Victoria Roberts


Meet James Theodore. Wee Jamie is the newest bairn to our clan. He's my handsome nephew who was born on September 30, 2014. Can you believe all that hair? He was welcomed home by his big sister, Maisy.

I was fortunate enough to spend a week at my sister's house to help her out after the baby was born. How quickly we forget how much it truly takes a village to care for a newborn. But don't get me wrong. There's nothing like the feeling of a new life curling up in your arms. Babies truly are a miracle. My sister and I had a great time, and I really enjoyed being able to help her out. I didn't get the chance to do that when my niece was born because my niece and my son are only seven months apart. The two of them are so funny because they fight like an old married couple one minute, and the next minute they're playing like BFF's.

This was wee Jamie's first trip to Toys 'R Us. He makes for a fine pirate. Aargh!

Our clan has a lot to be thankful for this holiday season. Our families are happy and healthy, and a new life in the world makes you realize how grateful you are for your own.

What are you thankful for this holiday season?

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Feeling a Lot Like Christmas

by M.L. Buchman

I've been discovering one of the great joys of the Christmas season that comes with being a writer. Throughout the year I work at my craft, I develop my novels, I consider where I want my series to go. And, because I'm a research hound, I plunge off into the world of research to learn about attitudes, practices, equipment, world events, etc. etc. etc.

And then comes Christmas!

Christmas comes early for a writer. In July or August, we start to consider what story we want to tell. What character wishes for a cheery holiday season. Which one wants to just cut loose and find a holiday romance. Will everyone else (at least north of the equator) is sweating it out, writers wander off to far cooler climes.

Through August, September, even October (and occasionally November because after all we're writers and schedules can be a severe challenge when a book takes far longer than you planned), we delve away on Christmas tales. It is a splendidly merry time of year to be a writer!

And this year I realized that I have been gifted with the joy of diving into this particular Santa's bag of joy three years in a row, each time in my Night Stalkers world of military romantic suspense. How cool is that? And how much fun!

In just two days, my Night Stalkers series will grow its third Christmas story, a Christmas at Steel Beach.

Yes, that's a hovercraft in the background. After all, what's Christmas without a hundred-ton hovercraft? Right? Of course right!

A "Steel Beach" is a day off on the Navy ships when their part of the world is momentarily quiet and then can simply stop. There are barbeques, sporting events (like tricycle races, seriously), sunbathing, and swimming off a "Steel Beach."

The supreme joke on this writer?
I didn't learn that "Steel Beach" was a real thing until after I finished and named the book! (Writing is such a peculiar job...in all the best ways.)

Here's three years of Christmas Triple joy!

I can't begin to tell you how much fun it is as a writer to give yourself such a present each year. To have something like this to look forward to, to play with! I can only hope my readers have as much fun as I did when I jumped off the Steel Beach for Christmas (look for it in just a few days).


Oooo! I can't wait for next summer!

Monday, November 17, 2014

romance among the stars

Some of my favourite TV shows are sci-fi. I grew up watching Doctor Who and Star Trek, moved on to Farscape, returned to the rebooted Doctor Who, and loved the rebooted Battlestar Galactica (I never saw the original).

There is something about sci-fi that I love. Maybe it's tech or the cool aliens (Farscape did aliens so well)...or simply the human drama of being in space and trapped on a ship with limited supplies where danger is never far away.

Farscape and BSG also threw in some romance which I loved:)  Who didn't want John Crichton and Aeryn Sun to get together?

It was only a matter of time before I started writing sci-fi romance.

The ES Siren series has no aliens but plenty of human drama as the ship makes it's way to the new colony. What's extra fun about this series is that Mel Teshco and Denise Rossetti also write books in the world so on release day the publisher puts out 3 books...yep 3 at a time so there's no waiting around to see how the mini crisis resolves.

The first three books are available now and the next three are out on 25 November...and there will be more, just got to get my contract signing pen out ;)

If you like SFR come and join Mel, Denise and I (and some friends who also write SFR) for an evening of aliens, tech, romance and giveaways at our Facebook party.



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Saturday, November 15, 2014

Turkey, turkey, turkey!

Remember that movie, Homeward Bound, when the two dogs and the cat make their way back home and the younger dog runs in the house saying, "turkey, turkey, turkey"?

That's the feeling that we get around our house as Thanksgiving approaches. It's the holiday when all our kids, their friends, their in-laws or whoever they can get in the van, the truck or in the car to bring with them come home for Thanksgiving. And just like Chance, the dog in the middle in the picture, I can just hear them saying, "Turkey, turkey, turkey" as they park those vehicles and come running toward the house.

Dinner, served buffet style, goes on the bar, the fold out table, the dry sinks in the dining room and the stove. Feasting begins at noon as soon as the blessing is said. Sometimes Mr. B says grace but he has been known to call upon the youngest child in the house to say the prayer before "turkey, turkey, turkey" begins.

It's our holiday to the kids so they don't have to bring a thing but at the end of the day they do have to take home leftovers. That's the number one rule. So that means Mr. B and I start planning and cooking ahead of time seein' as how there will be anywhere from thirty to fifty people here for the day. With that in mind, I thought I'd share a couple of our recipes with you today.

One of the questions I was asked at the Readers 'n Ritas conference last weekend was what was my favorite Thanksgiving food. And I did not hesitate one minute before saying, "Mr. B's pecan pie." He makes an almighty mean one and his secret is to never substitute margarine for butter, to always use dark Karo syrup and to always, always chop the pecans very fine.
 
Pecan Pie
1 cup sugar
1 cup dark Karo syrup
3 eggs
1 t. vanilla
2 T. melted butter
1-1/2 cups pecans, chopped very fine
1 9 inch pie crust, either homemade or purchased at the store

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Mix all the ingredients together and pour into the pie shell. Set on a cookie sheet and bake one hour. Remove from oven and let stand several hours before cutting.

I'm pretty sure I'd be booted out of heaven if I didn't make my famous hot rolls for Thanksgiving. You can pretend that they take hours and hours of slaving to make but really they aren't that hard to make, folks!
HOT ROLLS
2 cups of warm water
2 packages of dry yeast (or if you buy it in bulk like I do, 2 T. yeast)
1/2 cup sugar
Stir together and let stand until it foams
Add 3 cups of flour
2 eggs
1/2 cup cooking oil
1 Tablespoon salt
Stir well and then add 2-3 more cups of flour.
Knead a few times in the bowl. Cover and set aside until doubled in size. If I'm making rolls for dinner (that would be the noon meal here in southern Oklahoma), I make it up just before I go to bed and then it's ready the next morning, but it can be ready in about an hour and a half if you want to wait to make it.
Turn the dough out on a floured surface and knead a few times then pinch off rolls about half the size you want them to be and place in a 9x11 baking pan. This will make two pans or about 24 rolls. Cover and let raise again for about an hour, then bake at 350 degrees until golden brown. Brush melted butter over the tops while they are still hot.

The rest of the meal is fairly traditional...baked beans, macaroni and cheese, cranberry/orange relish with pecans of course, ham, "turkey, turkey, turkey", smoked brisket, meat balls, loaded mashed potatoes, candied sweet potatoes, fruit salad and this year we're adding pumpkin enchiladas and of course there are desserts in addition to the pecan pie: cherry pie, cherry cheesecake, pumpkin cheesecake, traditional pumpkin pie and triple fudge cake with chocolate strawberries (this is because our daughter was born on Thanksgiving and we always have her birthday that day and now our new grandson-in-law has a birthday two days after hers). Oh, I almost forgot the hash brown casserole and those fancy potato things that my son-in-law, the chef, makes. The menu might seem big but hey, the kids love the leftovers and you never know just how many friends they might bring with them.

Let the cooking, the feasting and the fun begin...
"turkey, turkey, turkey!"

What's is your absolute must have food at the holidays?

Friday, November 14, 2014

How Do Eyes Frame Truth and Emotion?

Your eyes give you away. A split-second, angled glance speaks volumes to the person facing you.

You may be rolling your eyes, thinking: "Come on. A quick glance up means something?"

Yes. Every tick, every angle, every number of blinks.

Think of your iris (your eye's colored circle). Researchers have measured 360 degree shifts of the iris to decipher our non-verbal communication. Those little movements mean big messages. Here's how those findings translate to you:


1. Length of a look



Have you ever wondered about that guy who made eye contact with you in Starbucks? Is he attracted? Or do you have a smear of latte foam on your face?

Here's how "the glance" breaks down. Two seconds or less is purely investigational. A noise might have distracted the guy and he looked your way.

If his look is at least four seconds...watch out! Once you break the four second threshold, attraction is in play. He's interested. He likes what he sees and is curious for more.

And, sure, you're not timing those glances, more like we feel the difference.

Now you're forewarned the next time you're in Starbucks.



2. Looking up
This shows thinking. Any teachers or moms out there? If your student/child looks up while doing homework or practicing their spelling words, then you most likely have a visual thinker on your hands. They need images to process information. The speller is picturing the word.

This next part gets a little sticky.

Looking upwards to the left typically means recalling information. Looking upwards to the right means someone is constructing a picture. This can also indicate lying. Ouch!

A simple truth is we all lie to some degree.

The left and right looks can be switched, too. The direction is dependent on which side is dominant for the person. Just ask someone to recall a simple fact and notice which way they glance up. Then ask them to imagine something and look at their eye direction. That's how you'll know their pattern.


3. Looks of Lust and Love 



Ever heard the term doe eyes? Eyes go soft and gewy over a love interest. Muscles relax around the eye. Focus changes. You're trying to take in the whole person because this is love and lust rolled into one look. The gaze is prolonged, pupils dilate, and eyes look shiny.

Historical romance buffs will like this: Ancient Egyptian and Babylonian women put belladonna in their eyes to lure men with dark, glossy-eyed looks. Don't try that home! While belladonna is a pretty plant, it's also poisonous. I used belladonna in my book, Meet the Earl at Midnight, but not for eye lust.

Whether you're communicating love, lust, or lies, your eyes speak volumes.

What are you saying to people today?

Thanks for stopping by today. Got any "eye" contact Starbucks stories you want to share?

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

What A Lady REALLY Needs for Christmas.... by Grace Burrowes

Where I live, the first frost has hit. My daughter in Denver has seen snow on the ground, and slightly north of her, the bitter cold and heavy snow accumulations have already started.

It's November, our next holiday is Thanksgiving, and for some people, that makes this the toughest time of year.

Cold keeps us indoors, shorter periods of sunlight can affect mood and energy. Most of us are making less Vitamin D, and that has all manner of metabolic implications. Flu season is upon us, driving can become perilous, and soon we'll be expected to come up with clever, insightful, tasteful, but not too expensive gifts for half the people we know or work with.

This can be a tough time of year, but NOT FOR ME.

I recently figured out that I sleep better in the colder weather, and thus I have more energy than when it's warm--despite the lack of sunlight. I also have more time to myself, and being a Warp Nine introvert, time to myself is another place I find more energy. Because of snow days and holidays, I have more time to stay home and marathon-write, and that's another source of energy and joy for me. When the leaves come off the big maple trees surrounding my little log cabin, my house has more natural light, and it's that sharp, contrasty winter light that seems to pierce all gloom.

I love this time of year, but not for the usual reasons. Not the getting together, not the holiday meals, not the time off from "work."  The depths of winter are Grace Holidays--solitude, big word counts, good sleep.

Often in our romance novels, the hero or heroine has to re-examine what is working for them, and what isn't. My heroines come to the realization that they loathe the shallowness and exhaustion of a London season. The heroes might have to admit they're not keen on hanging out in smelly, smokey, clubs; they aren't fond of brandy; and they like loud waistcoats.

We should all have permission to assess what about social assumptions works for us, and what doesn't, and to readjust accordingly. I've more or less backed into my ideal winter season, with lots of "writing holidays," time to myself, and cozy reading in the late evenings. Many other people thrive on the holiday shopping, the frequent socializing, and the hordes of house guests.

Where do you fall on the continuum between people who thrive in winter, and those who simply endure it? What's your ideal winter holiday, and is there a way you could have some of that, despite all the expectations you might have fulfill to the contrary?

To one commenter, I'll send a $25 Amex gift card, which I hope she'll use FOR HERSELF. To two other commenters, I'll send a signed copy of What A Lady Needs for Christmas.

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Start of a New Series from Mia Marlowe!

I always tell the writers who pop by my Red Pencil Thursday that the beginning of anything is a delicate time. In the case of a series, a writer has to introduce a large enough cast in an interesting enough world with enough unresolved situations to make readers ready to come back for Book 2, but not so many that they don't feel Book 1 didn't address enough of them to be satisfying on its own.

As I said, delicate.

So far however, the reviewers seems to think I've managed it with A Rake By Any Other Name. Here's what some of them say:

"Marlowe shines with a delightful and delicious comedy of errors for the first book in her new series, Somerfield Park. There's an heiress, a reluctant groom, a superfluous fiancee, secrets and scandals galore. Fast-paced, well-plotted and populated with authentic and lively characters. Regency fans will love this page-turner!" ~ RTBOOKReviews



"If future installments are anything like this little gem, count me in as a loyal reader!" ~ The Romance Reviews

A Rake by Any Other Name "had everything I could ask for in a delightfully entertaining historical romance novel. There was romance, mystery, scandal, blackmail, a bevy of intriguing and colorful characters, and a couple of twists thrown in for good measure. I couldn’t put it down." ~ UrbanGirlReader.com

However, the review I'm really interested in is yours, dear reader. You can try the first chapter on my website. Please let me know what you think of the world of Somerfield Park! I introduce at least 6 characters. Do you have favorite?

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